If you're willing to learn, I'll be writing an article on debunking the myths of self-love.

If you're with a self-loving woman, your relationship with her will inevitably be enhanced unless you do not love yourself. If you don't love yourself you can't possibly understand how to love another without conditions and you will forever be chasing them for their love (if you're codependent) or manipulating them for what you think should be love (if you're a narcissist.)

Just because someone says they are self-loving doesn't mean they are or that they even know what that means.